Denh Lay Photography

With two little princesses, I cannot even imagine how busy a mum of three active boys would be! Three distinct personalities that blend together so wonderfully :) I am also so impressed by the eldest two, who participated in the World’s Greatest Shave to raise money for the Leukaemia Foundation. What a credit to them indeed for being so brave and giving.

Thank you for the opportunity to create these beautiful memories. Hope life continues to be blissfully busy :)

This session was so much fun and full of gorgeousness. I love this age of exploration and expression. So uninhibited to be whomever they wish, be it rockstar, adventurer, karate kid, ballerina or just plain sweet :) Having adorable parents with such great heart helps too ♥

PS: The beautiful floral dresses are lovingly handmade by super mum herself. Check out Grace’s designs at Lillypilly Handmade.

Little Miss Indigo was an absolute delight and didn’t mind one bit when I set her down on a bed of fallen leaves and sticks (because I envisioned her as a little pixie in the forest ;)  She gazed around unperturbed and proceeded to gather a nutritious meal of gum leaves :)

Thank you Brigitte for introducing me to your lovely girls and thank you Amanda for enjoying the session with your beautiful bubba. I just love it when mums embrace being in the photos! Such a beautiful experience and moment, why not be present?

I enjoyed a fun session last week with two adorable little boys. Big brother was all ready to go but little brother was most comfortable in his head down state with eyes averted. It was a challenging session but with much persistence we did get some wonderful shots which I know mum will love. This situation is so common though that I was inspired to write this blog.

You see, despite the common belief that all kids love the camera, some simply … don’t. They’ve either grown sick of our paparazzi style coverage or they simply don’t enjoy posing for our satisfaction, much to our surprise! I have seen this aversion to the camera in all age groups. Toddlers can feel insecure and young teens can feel self conscious. In fact, it’s a scenario I deal with in a majority of my sessions.

So what do I suggest to my clients who are concerned about their ‘unwilling’ kids and not getting ‘the’ shot? … Relax. Enjoy. Trust.

Relax on the day because your energy affects their energy. If you are stressed and nervous, chances are your children will sense it and reciprocate. I have seen this far too often to ignore, especially with my own kids.

Enjoy the day because it is not an everyday experience. You’ve put a lot of effort in getting the family organised … and dressed :) Now enjoy. The rest frankly, is up to the photographer, me. That leads to my next important suggestion.

Trust that I will do everything I can to create the images you desire. Trust that I will seek your help when I need it. Trust that I have enough experience with kids of all ages to work with them, to gain their trust, to help them share their personality … willingly. There is no set method, every child is different but here’s some things I try to do:

– Relate to what makes them happy

– Encourage but not insist on their participation

– Give them space

– Have fun. Be silly :)

Ultimately, I don’t want your children to simply put on a smile for the camera, I want them to enjoy the experience and smile because it makes them happy :)

My last blog post (click here) is a great example of a typical session that can start with much introspection and end with much delight.